Our vision
The true meaning of
community is mostly lost, due to the fact that the lack of community is
the norm in our society. The word community is applied to, almost any
collection of individuals - a town, a neighbourhood, a church, a
business, a family - regardless of how poorly those individuals
communicate with each other. Since communication is the bedrock of all
human relationships, it is a false use of the word.
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The overall purpose of human communication is, or
should be, reconciliation. It should ultimately serve to lower or remove
the walls and barriers of misunderstanding that unduly separate us
human beings, one from another. Its purpose then is to create and
maintain love and harmony. It is peacemaking.
The rules, or
principles, of community-making are the principles of authentic,
effective communication. These principles have profound application to
any situation in which two or more people are gathered together.
Peace-making and reconciliation - community-making - is not just a
global matter; it is a matter of concern within any family, any
neighbourhood, any business, any church.
Community then, may
be defined as a group of two or more people who, regardless of the
diversity of their backgrounds, have been able to accept and transcend
their differences, enabling them to communicate openly and effectively
and to work together towards common goals
Achievement of community is both difficult and intentional. It requires
that we be willing to give up some of our individual defences and
habitual behaviour. Through increased personal risk, vulnerability and
responsibility, a group gradually becomes a "safe place". Personal
growth, healing, and self-discovery can occur in this atmosphere of
acceptance and understanding.
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Any group of people can
experience community provided they understand the demands and
responsibilities involved and are willing to commit themselves to the
process.
The process
can be learned, but not from a book, or a lecture. It must be experienced.
It is virtually impossible to describe community meaningfully to
someone who has never experienced it - and most of us have never had an
experience of true community.
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